Me: Where should I apply my perfume?
Coco Chanel: A woman should wear perfume wherever she wants to be kissed
Some people in this goddamn fandom act like 5 year olds with absolutely no consideration or filter to the stupid stuff that comes out of their mouths. If you’re joking about a heavy situation, please realise that it’s not a joke to most people and at least adjust your thinking accordingly… especially.. because.. someone is SUFFERING. No one wants to hear your “attempt to lighten up the situation” (truth: actually being an rude immature child.)
Remember when Sasha Grey was like “what’s degrading for some women is empowering for other women” and all the third wave feminists and male allies tried to make the most disgusting bullshit in kink communities seem acceptable using this quote
yet another reason libfem should stand for libertarian feminist and not liberal feminist
like yeah let’s all just do what makes us happy and not give a shit about the effect it might have on other people
rape is so normalised that we have to use the term, consensual sex, and not just sex, because for some reason sex in itself is not considered inherently consensual…